Fear vs Respect
In this blog I want to talk about a topic that is being experienced a lot these days. This is fear and respect.
In these times we live in, many prefer to use fear to control the people or other people. It is even used so much that many times we do not even realize that we are victims or manipulated by it.
Now, before going deeper into the topic, we must define what fear and respect are and why both are important.
Fear according to Wikipedia is an emotion characterized by an intense unpleasant sensation caused by the perception of danger, real or supposed, present, future or even past. It is a perceived feeling of a primary emotion that derives from natural aversion to risk or threat.
In other words, fear helps us avoid what could harm us. This is a good thing. But there are also fears that go beyond normal and can become a phobia. For example, fear of heights, confined spaces, insects, etc.
To define respect once again we go to Wikipedia and it tells us that it is the special consideration and appreciation that is given to someone or something. We also know that respect is not something that is demanded but earned when we are talking about relationships between people. But our first instinct is to respect.
In The Bible it mentions that, “The beginning of wisdom is the fear of the Lord, and the knowledge of the Holy One is intelligence.” – Proverbs 9:10
The word fear in this case can also be translated as respect. For example, I may be afraid of my father, but he does not mean that I am terrified of him, but rather respect. It is the same with The Lord, I do not have terror or fear of Him, but respect because I know that He is the Creator and my Savior.
But it doesn't just stop there, having respect or fear of the Lord gives us intelligence and wisdom. And this is a concept that applies to other things in our lives.
As weapons, it is not about fear, but respect. Respect is knowing that the weapon can cause great harm, even death, and that is why we have to take precautions when using or handling it. There are certain rules that are followed to avoid “accidents” with weapons:
1. Always point the gun in a safe direction.
2. Always keep your finger off the trigger until you are ready to shoot.
3. Always keep the gun empty until it is ready to be used.
4. Always know the target and what is behind the target.
We also have rules or procedures when using a knife, hammer, or operating a lock, etc. It's not about being afraid of him, just having the respect he deserves. That makes us intelligent and wise to know how to use these tools correctly, without causing accidents or injuries. We can even show others how to use them correctly.
This concept can also be applied to other parts of our lives. In some cases, many are so afraid that they make steps and decisions, without thinking them through well or completely, that they normally would not make.
If you are told that you have a serious illness and require this or another treatment, sometimes it is good or wise to receive another opinion or point of view. Then, with all the information in hand, make the decision that best suits your situation.
The fact of respecting the illness, situation, threat, etc. It helps us understand what is happening and react in the wisest way. Panicking blinds us to other options and causes paralysis that can cause great harm or death.
So, instead of allowing fear to dominate you, it is better to respect it and use the knowledge and wisdom that God has given us.
Be afraid of nothing, but respect everyone and everything.
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, of love, and of self-control.” - 2 Timothy 1:7
And as Benjamin Franklin, one of the nation's founders, said, “Those who would give up essential liberty to purchase a little temporary security deserve neither liberty nor security.”